my best friend's wedding

I had the strangest dream. I dreamt that some psychopath was trying to break the two of you up. Luckily, I woke up and I see that the world is just as it should be. For my best friend has won the best woman. I didn't buy you a gift. But this is on loan until you two find your song... ~My Best Friend's Wedding

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xaVLbk_3UeU
i loved that movie... i mean what's not to like about it... julia roberts Dermot Mulroney, ahh love him... so the jist of the move is that Julie and Michael are best friends who made a promise to each other that if they didn't get married by time they turned twenty-eight they would marry each other... well it turns out that weeks before julie's birthday Michael tells her he's found "the one" and he's going to marry her... so of course julie realizes at that point that she's always loved Michael and she heads out to Chicago to try to stop the wedding... To her surprise she is asked to be the maid of honor by the bride... so of course julie finally tells Michael that she's madly in love with him, has been forever and Michael should marry her instead... the bride finds out and the chase begins... but in the end Michael marries Kimberly, the other girl...

my bgf is getting married this weekend...

i've been in a few weddings for my "girl" best friends... there's my best friend lynn... we have been friends since forever... she had her "i'm getting married so let's get crazy" party in Vegas which was a blast... and she had the most beautiful beachfront wedding i've ever been to... i mean we were literally walking down the aisle with sand between our toes... and when it was time for her to give her toast and to thank everyone for their help she said this to me, "i love you lib and you are beautiful." from the bottom of my heart i love lynn and that was the nicest thing for her to say to me especially on her most special day (in front of like a few hundred people)...

my bgf is getting married this weekend...

the bgf is a great guy... he's polite and caring... he's funny and sweet... we have had many "talks"... about life and other things... and each time i left feeling better about myself... he has always had that ability to see the other side of me... i will miss our talks the most... just hanging out in his office watching the surfers or the ships coming into port... brainstorming about "business ventures" that would take us closer to the thing that we loved the most...

my bgf is getting married this weekend...

i keep calling him "my" bgf... but after this weekend that will all change... you know i knew this day was coming.. i guess i was just willing it not to... and as i stare at the cursor, flashing at me waiting for me to type, the image that i see is of him sobbing about "how mean she is" and all of the mean things that she's done over the years... and i have to wonder why... of course why did she do those things but most of all why would he go through with marrying her if she did... doesn't he know that it doesn't have to be that way... that when you love someone they love you back wholeheartedly, unconditionally...

sometimes i think we get so caught up in the person we are with that we fail to see who they truly are... sometimes we wish that they would be different and maybe, just maybe we can be the ones who can change them... as hard as we try the person who we choose to be with will always be that way and has been from the beginning...

Jonathan: In case of life. I just had a really great time and for all we know I wouldn't be able to find you again.... Sara: Well, if we're meant to meet again, we'll meet again. it's just not the right time now... ~Serendipity